Pivotal by Dee - Personal Life Coach and Moltivational Partner

The rain was pounding hard on the ground, and I could see the rocks and pebbles illuminating with hues as a reflection from a light so far away. The speckle sandy ripples glittered with beauty. I stared at the clouds; they were so pregnant as though they were preparing for prolonged labor. Talk of this kind of labor where a woman cries, turns, curses, and then, in the end, they are wheeled to a theatre room for a caesarian delivery. Oh, I’m sure every person who has gone through this has sworn with their great grandfather’s name that they need no more children, only to forget after 2 years and they are back at it again. That’s life, healing is a process.

 

Sometimes, we think we have leverage, only to get a trigger, and all of a sudden, we feel like a broken vase. There’s a void in our souls, and nothing can replace the brokenness. Nothing seems to ease pain so deep; it never ventures near the skin but rather gets embroidered in the heart. You become a wounded soul that does not need any tangible repair but rather soak yourself in a gleam of solitude.  You try to find solace in friends who laughed with you when all was smooth and glowing, and all you do is chase after smoke. Some people are an elixir, others are venom. You should learn to distinguish the two. Some people will find you crushed and empty your existence staining you with crude poison. They will not help you to recover but sink you in. Run away from such kind of people that come in the name of friends, but they will never help you when in trouble. Aspire to be with people who hold your hand when in trouble and walk the journey with you to fruition. They are the aura your spirit needs.

 

Attitude is everything on your pathway to healing. When things become vague and it’s all confusion. Try to go back to the place where you had the hopes of a little child, and everything was possible. Of course, time heals all wounds. Please stop overthinking life like you must have answers to every feeling or situation. Life is a roller coaster you know, and there are going to be very painful moments that will change your life and your entire world. How you navigate past the storm is all that counts. No one is perfect, learn, elevate past the hurt, transcend beyond what happened, let go of what no longer serves you and protect your energy daily. More so, forgive yourself and love yourself unconditionally. Some things will just fall into place, and you’ll not even know how you pulled through.

 

Train your mind to be positive no matter what. Life is rarely ever predictable. Therefore, just trust, hope, and believe. Dare to blaze the trail even when the path in Infront of you looks impossible. The secret of life is not about knowing the future or having a perfect roadmap but rather having faith in the future and getting the spirit of a pioneer. Think positive always. The most exhilarating experiences are generated in the mind. Learn to take control of your thoughts. Becoming mentally strong requires effort and practice. We can choose to fix our thoughts on goodness, abundance, and hope. Hope that there’s a way out and have faith that you’re strong enough to conquer the problems that you face.

 

Heal my friend, from hurt, guilt, and feelings of persecution. I hope you are like the sun, no matter how dark it is, no one should take your glory. Do not take your warmth away and your precious innocence. Day by day, just when you thought the pain will never go, your heart will feel lighter and your soul happier. You know you have mastered the soul lesson when the circumstance has not changed but the way you respond has. That’s the true energy of self-mastery.